It was in the ordinary decencies–drink, food, conversation–that Samuel Beckett believed, and in little else, apart from Art, his one true religion. In this personal church he was a staunch conservative. His saints were Dante, Racine, Rembrandt, Schubert, Schopenhauer, and that other melancholy Samuel, Dr. Johnson, who obsessed him all his life (interestingly, pre-Godot, he wrote part of a play about Dr. Johnson in which the great man is awaited but never appears). Lesser saints were Vico, Haydn, Proust, and James Joyce–and thereby hangs a tale, for it was, in a convoluted way, via Joyce that Beckett met his greatest supporter and fellow-congregant in the Church of Art, his future wife Suzanne Déchevaux-Dumesnil. Actually, they met eight years before they really met, so to speak, as opponents in a tennis match (yes! Beckett in tennis whites), and only got together again eight years later, in 1938, after a notorious incident in which Beckett was attacked and nearly murdered by a pimp in the street. In hospital, he was tended to by the Joyce family, including the great man himself, for whom Beckett had been working on and off as a kind of secretary, transcriber of notes, and general dogsbody. Joyce paid for the hospital room and took care of the medical bills. Suzanne read about the stabbing incident in the papers and contacted Joyce, who communicated Beckett's whereabouts. Suzanne came to visit the Irish patient, and the rest is history; they stayed together for life, marrying in 1961. 

         And thank God or Godot for that, because without her we would almost certainly never have heard of him. Beckett's indifference to the world and its opinions was such that–especially after about 1945–he couldn't even be bothered to submit his own works to publishers, and detested having to make use of such contacts as he had, whom he preferred, very Irishly, to think of as pals to share a story or a drink with, not as part of a business "network." Anyway: "Success and failure on the public level never mattered much to me," he averred. "In fact, I feel more at home with the latter, having breathed deep of its vivifying air all my writing life up to the last couple of years."

         Mind you, he had been rejected by over 40 publishers when he sent out Murphy, his first accomplished novel; and 35 producers and directors had laughed Waiting for Godot out of town, so some disillusionment is understandable. Over to Suzanne, then, who'd come to know her man well during their years on the run in the French Resistance: gnomic, down-to-earth, fascinated by the everyday, adept at colloquial French speech–clearly a genius in ovo, but useless at self-promotion, paralyzed by the possibilities, socially inept. Not so Suzanne, who was a typical Left Bank intellectual of her time, acquainted with everybody who was anybody in the 5th and 6th arrondissments. Crucially, she was a dynamo compared to Sam (whom Peggy Guggenheim, the American socialite with whom he'd had a fling, called "Oblomov," after the iconic Russian layabout), and she never let up in her determination to bring success to them both. Undeterred by the mountain of rejections, she found Sam a publisher, Editions de Minuit, and a producer, Roger Blin, who presented the world premiere of ''Waiting for Godot,'' and ignited the mighty machine of fame that took shy Sam all the way to the Nobel Prize in 1969.